In some moment of our life, we can’t deny that we admired someone else. Not the one we love right now. I said this because I have this experience. I love someone for 13 years, but in that same period I also adore someone else. Not only one, but more than that. I am definitely not a playboy. But this is not a story of that…

Obsession, can be define as liking someone for some criteria. As an example, girl who always been ignored by her family, will tend to find someone older who are nicer and caring as a replacement of fatherly image that she can’t get from her family. That’s why we can see some trouble teenagers will go out with older persons. Or, in other case.. in easy word.. in my case.. I can be categorized as nice people, caring and understandable. I always care about my friends despite their gender. In my school life, there is one moment where a girl become obsess with me. It’s not that she follow me everywhere I go. It just that she suddenly hate me whenever I spoke to other female friends. This is happen because, for one week before, I always talk to her about anything, making jokes and laughing together. When I suddenly less talking to her at the next week, she became mad at me. After asking with her other friend, I realize that she got a feeling for me. I never intend to seduce or whatever. That’s why we must always observe people around us and see their action toward us. It somehow can give you a bit of hint,s how people around you react on your actions and how you should react to them.

Love is a definition about liking someone or something without any reason. Love can be divide to many parts, but in this entry I only wanna write about love between human being. Family, Friendship and Lovers. Loving our own family is a natural feeling in human being. If you don’t have this feeling, means that you are not been categorized as human, better do medical check up. Doesn’t matter how bad our brothers, sisters, mother, father, wife or husband… we will still care for them. Love in friendship is not easy to keep, especially between male and female. If you are married, please don’t be friend too close with the opposite gender. Without realizing it, you may create trouble. Lovers should love each other till death do us apart. Somehow, it won’t reach that point because love tend to fade away. Lovers must always create new talks, activities and jokes to polish the love everyday. Sending text message or phoning is not enough. Try  to communicate with video call, webcam, photo sharing or letter that have your own hand writing love poem. Eventually, your love will grew stronger.

OBSESSION will somehow create dangerous action, but LOVE will always creating wonderful feeling.